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PostSubject: opposite attracts or do not?   Thu Nov 12, 2009 2:36 am

What do you think? opposite attracts or not at all? there are ppl who said yes, but some experts disagree with it, saying that having things in common is key to long lasting relationship. namely, goals, interests, outlooks, values, beliefs.
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PostSubject: Re: opposite attracts or do not?   Wed Nov 18, 2009 2:24 pm

U mean opposite characteristics?

Well, it does attracts sometimes. Depends what they are looking for in their love partners.

The experts are right about the long term relationship that same interests and so so (what you mentioned) are the real keys to it.

The attraction can be a short while if he/she din notice much about the bad side, and looked too much on the good side.

I have the experience that I liked someone that I ignore the ugly side of hers. Then after a few weeks of observing, I found out something of her doesn't appeal much to me. So I quit.
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PostSubject: Re: opposite attracts or do not?   Fri Nov 20, 2009 11:10 am

but everyone has bad sides, and flaws...
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PostSubject: Re: opposite attracts or do not?   Wed Nov 25, 2009 11:32 am

We have to learn to accept sometimes. Even ourselves have flaws. Not everyone is perfect, that's why we have to fit into each other.

Imagine the classic jigsaw puzzle we used to play around. You can see that each puzzle is unique and different from each other. Still they fit into one big picture in the end.

The sides of each puzzle is either holes (flaws) or rounded tabs (advantages).

For example, I like to cook, and my girlfriend likes to enjoy good food even though she doesn't cook. In the same time, she likes home-cook food.

I still like her even she doesn't really cook. You can say it's a flaw to me, but it's acceptable by me.

It's complicated, at the same time, it's a challenge we have to face.
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PostSubject: Re: opposite attracts or do not?   Tue Dec 01, 2009 10:32 pm

So subjective. Evri1 has their own opinion. As 4 me, as long 'He' is humanly enough;not a 'punk a**'.'he' 's my buddy, my teammate, my master(may be too strong word), my prince, my hunny, u name it. u know there's a saying; that person(a lover)is 4 u n urs only or sumthing that goes same like that n all. love
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