~Love or Friendship~

n3p3nd3ath · Subject: ~Love or Friendship~ Thu Oct 16, 2008 8:52 pm

Hello Guys!!!

I have noticed that nowadays people ditch their friends when they are in RelationShip!!!! Evil or Very Mad

For an example :

Situation:
A group of friends are chatting...
A : Guys...Did u notice that C is nowadays no longer hang around with us!!!
B : Yea...Must be because of his new life partner!!
D : Yea.. This always happens...

FriendshiP Is stronger than Love???

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Love is stronger than Friendship???

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Or..Both are equal???

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These both precious relationship should be treated evenly!!!
The world will be very dark when u have a life without Friends and Love!!!
Life with Friends with no Love...n Life with Love with no friends cant be considered a good life....
Well thats my opinion..Forumers!!! What u think!!! Very Happy

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snowfish · Subject: Re: ~Love or Friendship~ Fri Oct 17, 2008 1:11 pm

1st and foremost is because they want to focus on their new found love~

So they will eventually meet their frens less...

Until they sort out their time spend between partners and friends then they will come back to their frens eventually...

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nightgaia · Subject: Re: ~Love or Friendship~ Fri Oct 17, 2008 2:06 pm

Like what snowfish said:

Usually they will ditch their friends for their new found partner. Once things cool down, they will revert back to friends again..

n3p3nd3ath · Subject: Re: ~Love or Friendship~ Fri Oct 17, 2008 2:25 pm

Well...nOt all people are like that...He or She ditch his/her friends forever!!!

They will be bz with their stuff together..till they forget their friends forever....

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Pipboy3000 · Subject: Re: ~Love or Friendship~ Fri Oct 17, 2008 2:28 pm

A lover is (and should be) your best friend. It's like hanging out with a friend you best enjoy the time spent together. In the end it all comes down to your definition of each words.

How about this: let's think of something a friend can provide but not lover/spouse and vice versa? Something you can get when hang out with your normal friends instead of your gf/bf, or something you can only get when hanging out with gf/bf but not with your friends?

I think then we will know whether people is "blinded by love" or it's actually a logical choice.

n3p3nd3ath · Subject: Re: ~Love or Friendship~ Fri Oct 17, 2008 2:32 pm

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A lover is (and should be) your best friend. It's like hanging out with a friend you best enjoy the time spent together. In the end it all comes down to your definition of each words.

How about this: let's think of something a friend can provide but not lover/spouse and vice versa? Something you can get when hang out with your normal friends instead of your gf/bf, or something you can only get when hanging out with gf/bf but not with your friends?

I think then we will know whether people is "blinded by love" or it's actually a logical choice.

Good ExplainatioN!!!!

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Pipboy3000 · Subject: Re: ~Love or Friendship~ Fri Oct 17, 2008 2:42 pm

I'd spend more time with my lover though. Else, what's the point of being bf/gf? Might as well just be friends if you're not going to give special treatment or spend more time together.

n3p3nd3ath · Subject: Re: ~Love or Friendship~ Fri Oct 17, 2008 2:45 pm

Well..still..U can be always with ur lover...

Our friends might feel like ur ditching them as well!!!

SO...50-50 is safe side!!!

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Pipboy3000 · Subject: Re: ~Love or Friendship~ Fri Oct 17, 2008 2:53 pm

n3p3nd3ath wrote:

Well..still..U can be always with ur lover...

Our friends might feel like ur ditching them as well!!!

SO...50-50 is safe side!!!

True...

lover: 50%/1
friends: 50%/<insert total number of your friends>

lol!

elyn89 · Subject: Re: ~Love or Friendship~ Fri Oct 17, 2008 10:37 pm

I guess there needs to be a balance Very Happy

It is undeniable that yea, when ur friends have found their partner..they automatically spend less time with u..

And maybe friends can introduce their partners so they'll feel more comfortable when being around their partner's friends.. Smile

hacker · Subject: Re: ~Love or Friendship~ Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:04 pm

mmmm, for me girls come and go, they betray you sometimes but friends they stick with u, they were there when u nothing, they were there when u down, they just everywhere in your life and help shape your life, maybe we not notice this but this things do happen, some friendship can last for life(friends forever)..

as for me, both of them are equally important in my life..... Very Happy

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n3p3nd3ath · Subject: Re: ~Love or Friendship~ Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:07 pm

Hacker..U made a point here!!!

Bt ur conclusion doesn't suits ur xplaination!!!
I think Friendship is bttr than Love!!!
Well..alot of my friends came out with that idea as welL!!

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hacker · Subject: Re: ~Love or Friendship~ Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:17 pm

n3p3nd3ath wrote:

Hacker..U made a point here!!!

Bt ur conclusion doesn't suits ur xplaination!!!
I think Friendship is bttr than Love!!!
Well..alot of my friends came out with that idea as welL!!

my conclusion not good enough??

i said that because, i need to be fair to both of them....friends(part of who you are)...gf(could be your future life partner)..than how can u say one is better than another??? ....

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n3p3nd3ath · Subject: Re: ~Love or Friendship~ Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:20 pm

Trying to be fair huh!!!

Although I mentiond that both should be treated equally!!!
Still in my mind..I think Friendship bonding is much stronger that this Love THingy!!

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hacker · Subject: Re: ~Love or Friendship~ Sat Oct 18, 2008 1:35 pm

so i guess u really treasured your friends...not bad..

almost all of my friends i knew them when i was still a kid, and we still going strong until now...

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