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| What's your view on Abstinence (sexual)? | | Go For It | | 55% | [ 16 ] | | Against The Idea | | 37% | [ 11 ] | | Still Taboo, Still Won't Say | | 6% | [ 2 ] |
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AJay
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 |  Subject: Re: Abstinence - Do you wait or not?  Thu Sep 04, 2008 4:49 pm | |
| Say Tak Nak to Pre-Marriage Sex!!!!
XD _________________  |
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| | Subject: Re: Abstinence - Do you wait or not? Tue Sep 09, 2008 4:51 pm | |
| Pre-marital sex la..aduh! Wrote an agreement during a seminar "Love, Life + Sex"...teach about abstinence and the consequences if we have pre-marital sexual relationships... The agreement is that I'm saving myself till life long monogamous marriage..  _________________  |
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| | Subject: Re: Abstinence - Do you wait or not? Tue Sep 09, 2008 6:54 pm | |
| Samething snowfish... the message is still clear... | snowfish wrote: | Pre-marital sex la..aduh!
Wrote an agreement during a seminar "Love, Life + Sex"...teach about abstinence and the consequences if we have pre-marital sexual relationships...
The agreement is that I'm saving myself till life long monogamous marriage.. |
for that ar.... i wish u luck... XD u gonna need it... seriously.._________________ |
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| | Subject: Re: Abstinence - Do you wait or not? Wed Sep 10, 2008 2:06 am | |
| All I can say is, its up to both party to decide.
Seeing how we are brought up in a more conservative society, this stuff tend to wait till one gets married. Other than that, its due to desperation or just fooling around.
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| | Subject: Re: Abstinence - Do you wait or not? Wed Sep 10, 2008 2:15 am | |
| Desperation~~ will surly fail u in a relationship... _________________ |
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| | Subject: Re: Abstinence - Do you wait or not? Wed Sep 10, 2008 10:29 pm | |
| | AJay wrote: | | Desperation~~ will surly fail u in a relationship... |
Hmm... In my opinion, curiousity could be one factor that causes this issue to arise. Whenever a teenager reaches a certain age, biological change, peer pressure and certain "exposing media" could cause them to think, consider and even fantasize about an intimate sexual relationship. I should think that understanding the action is key to preventing any potential problem. Hopefully rational could overcome rash actions.
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| | Subject: Re: Abstinence - Do you wait or not? Thu Sep 11, 2008 9:27 am | |
| Lust....  wahahahhaha.... _________________ |
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| | Subject: Re: Abstinence - Do you wait or not? Fri Sep 12, 2008 3:13 pm | |
| | JJustinN wrote: | | AJay wrote: | | Desperation~~ will surly fail u in a relationship... |
Hmm... In my opinion, curiousity could be one factor that causes this issue to arise. Whenever a teenager reaches a certain age, biological change, peer pressure and certain "exposing media" could cause them to think, consider and even fantasize about an intimate sexual relationship. I should think that understanding the action is key to preventing any potential problem. Hopefully rational could overcome rash actions. |
I have to agree that curiousity is one big factor for what dictates the actions of most youngsters nowadays. and a sense of exploration as well... |
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| | Subject: Re: Abstinence - Do you wait or not? Fri Sep 12, 2008 4:22 pm | |
| | rain wrote: | | JJustinN wrote: | | AJay wrote: | | Desperation~~ will surly fail u in a relationship... |
Hmm... In my opinion, curiousity could be one factor that causes this issue to arise. Whenever a teenager reaches a certain age, biological change, peer pressure and certain "exposing media" could cause them to think, consider and even fantasize about an intimate sexual relationship. I should think that understanding the action is key to preventing any potential problem. Hopefully rational could overcome rash actions. |
I have to agree that curiousity is one big factor for what dictates the actions of most youngsters nowadays. and a sense of exploration as well... |
That is why sex education in school is important...If youths know what are the consequences of having pre-marital sex then there won't be so many problems_________________ |
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| | Subject: Re: Abstinence - Do you wait or not? Sat Sep 13, 2008 2:13 am | |
| Now, talking about sex education. We are brought up in a conservative way, hence, some stuff are like taboo. I mean, how many people can talk about sex openly? Even talking about certain things give people weird impression, or worst, you'll get that "look".
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| | Subject: Re: Abstinence - Do you wait or not? Sat Sep 13, 2008 11:12 am | |
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| | Subject: Re: Abstinence - Do you wait or not? Sat Sep 13, 2008 12:09 pm | |
| That's why...not only sex la...a lot of other thing we are brought up not to say..so a lot of us can't say out our thoughts..  _________________ |
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| | Subject: Re: Abstinence - Do you wait or not? Sat Sep 13, 2008 1:13 pm | |
| yes ...even thou we want it but we knew that there are boundary in between that we cannot crosses(religion,culture,parents name) and if we did cross, well lets say, that are the time where -ve things happen, girl got pregnant, threw new born babies and so on .. |
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| | Subject: Re: Abstinence - Do you wait or not? Sat Sep 13, 2008 3:50 pm | |
| Although there is boundary..but still depends whether a person follows them..some not afraid of the consequences and choose to leave the problems behind and escape...  _________________ |
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